Not So Neat and Tidy

Robert Broughton Photography

Robert Broughton Photography – Cleveland, TN

“For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them” (Ephesians 2:10).

Oswald Chambers (My Utmost for His Highest), writes, “God saves men by His sovereign grace through the Atonement of Jesus. He works in us to will and to do of His good pleasure; but we have to work out that salvation in practical living.”

Each “work” He’s prepared for us to do affords opportunities for us to walk out our salvation in “practical living”!

In my twenties, I organized and was the director of a half-day preschool. I went through the licensing and the training and opened a Monday – Friday, 8 – 12 preschool program. I had dreams of finger painting, teaching letters, sweet little children with their cherubic cheeks, camaraderie among grateful parents…

There was finger painting. There were alphabet letters. There were children and there were parents. My vision of the perfect preschool in which I lovingly taught children in the most creative of ways got a reality check when one of my kids exhibited signs of fetal alcohol syndrome. He had some emotional and physical challenges and every morning he had a messy accident in his Pull-Ups. And I got the opportunity to use creativity as I cleaned him up. Another one of my kids was an escape artist! She liked to high tail it out of the enclosed playground and run across the church parking lot and I got to perfectly control my nerves. Some days one of the more “helpful” parents enjoyed hanging out with the kids and me to offer “tips” on how to run a better preschool. That was a different brand of camaraderie than I had expected!

What’s my point?

It’s tempting to read passages like the one in Ephesians and expect the good works God has prepared for us will be void of any mess. We sometimes have the erroneous idea and vision that working for God should be neat and tidy. On one especially hectic morning, my “helpful” parent suggested to me that if God had given me the vision for starting a preschool then it should run smoothly and I should not be stressed. That was encouraging. (Can’t you just see me rolling my eyes?)

I remember during that season I’d make a new acquaintance and they’d invariably ask, “What do you do?” Of course I answered, “I direct a preschool” but I felt like replying, “I’m a nose and hiney wiper.”

Although my career as a preschool director was short lived, I can say I sunk myself into doing it to the best of my ability and God inspired and anointed me to bless those children.

When God fashioned you in the womb, He placed within you the seed of everything you would need to accomplish His will for you. He created you, formed you and prepares you for the works He’s prepared in advance for you to do. I believe God used my preschool director days to develop a seed He’d placed in me. Your “work” may get messy at times. You may get stressed and feel like you’re just a glorified nose and hiney wiper, but understand that something within you – possibly still in seed form – is being developed, and perhaps for an even deeper or greater work in your future.

Robert Broughton Photography - Ceveland, TN

Robert Broughton Photography – Ceveland, TN

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A Stink in the Dark

bag of potatoes

One day a few years ago the kids and I loaded up in our van to go hither and yon or maybe we were just on our way to church. As I drove, we all noticed a peculiar smell and I ordered everyone to dispose of any trash that might be hanging out in the van. That, however, did not solve the problem.

For nearly a month we could not figure out the cause of the stink. I thought it might be time for my youngest son to start using deodorant. But even after our Mitchum intervention, it still smelled quite “unpleasant” every time we got in the van.

Finally, I could take the stench no longer. I got a flashlight and scoured the van for the cause of the offensive odor. I reached way up under the driver’s seat – MY SEAT! – and grasped a squishy object.
A potato. One rotten potato.
It must have escaped from the last five pounds I bought on my way home from “hither” (the grocery store).
Sometimes our thoughts are like a sack of potatoes. We’re careful to keep them contained and safely guarded. We apply God’s Word to our minds and our hearts. But at times, a thought escapes the sack and gets lodged in a hidden place. In the dark and unchecked by the light of Truth, that thought begins to stink as it rots.
By disciplining our minds to rest in God’s truth, we keep our thoughts under submission and in captivity to the light of Christ.
To this day I always make sure my potato sack is well cinched!
Keep your “sack cinched” and your thoughts on things above.

Set your mind on things above, not on things on the earth.” ~ Colossians 3:2 NKJV

 

“…casting down arguments and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ…” ~ 2 Cor. 10:5 NKJV

 

Check out my new Bible Study tab in the black bar up top. I’m freely offering a summer online mini Bible study called, “Get RiPT” to help you get fitter in your faith and build spiritual muscle. Click on “Bible Study” to see what it’s all about or click here. You can print or download the short study guides. Then click on the pages underneath “Bible Study” for each week’s video teaching and study guide. Here’s the link for week one. Feel free to leave a comment after each post.

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Beach Retreat Recap

The Beach Retreat House

The Beach Retreat House

Hello friends!

I’ve just returned from spending four days with a lovely community of women on Rehoboth Beach in Delaware. Last year they invited me to fly out and teach the Bible sessions at their annual spring beach retreat. I wrote and taught Life in the Key of G – Grace & Glory.” At the end of that retreat, Joan, the Women’s Ministry Coordinator invited me to return. So I began to write another Bible study, “The Personal Power of Choice – Choose Well & Live Well.” I dealt with the following issues: Comparison, Courage, Control, Contentment and Connection.

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While it was a bit cool for this Florida girl, I don’t know that you could find a more beautiful beach anywhere! And here’s where I must tell you that the day I spent an hour on the beach (relaxing in the sun?) I sat in a beach chair with a snuggie covering me head to toe. In fact, I even covered my head completely. I’m sure I was quite the sight to behold!

Rehoboth Beach, DE,  Is this gorgeous, or what?!

Rehoboth Beach, DE,
Is this gorgeous, or what?!

Teaching Session

Teaching Session

I thoroughly enjoyed the teaching sessions. At my core I am a teacher and I am most fulfilled when teaching God’s Word. When he places a spiritual gift within us it is for the purpose of blessing others, glorifying Him and in the process we are fulfilled. I call that a Win – Win – Win situation!

Prayer

Prayer

When praying for others I find it necessary to listen in prayer and follow the leading of the Holy Spirit. Sometimes that will mean pausing in silence to hear how He will lead. The key is not to get uncomfortable in the quiet. I have learned that God does not rush. He is unhurried. He wants to speak to us but we must learn to tune in so we might hear Him.

First cup of  coffee ~

First cup of coffee ~

I knew I could count on these women to have coffee ready every morning. They did not disappoint. The food was delicious as always and the deserts – oh my! Sadly, my favorite jeans were quite snug after a day of indulging myself! But I’m back on track now that I’m home. No more coconut cream pie for me for a loooong time (it was SO good). Joan and her board know how to make women feel special and loved. You see it in all the details.

A lovely bag filled with goodies!

A lovely bag filled with goodies presented by Lisa & Charnell – heartbeat friends.

My friend, LaDon, and me ~ friends for 30 years!

My friend, LaDon, and me ~ friends for 30 years!

This is my very good and long time friend, LaDon. She’s just wrapped up a movie (for real!). Watch for it with Eric Roberts and a great cast of actors. It’s called, “Day of the Gun” and is a One-Eyed Horse Production. Watch the trailer here and watch for my friend, LaDon. She’s in the role of Maggie Carter. I’m so proud of her! Pray that God will continue to open doors for LaDon as she is a godly woman and a talented actor. I spent an extra day hanging out with LaDon and her family. She took me to the movie set – so interesting!

Playing piano on the movie set ~

Playing the saloon piano on the movie set ~

I’m blessed to have her support and encouragement in ministry. It was a day after the retreat that I saw what she had written on facebook:

Tomorrow HCC Ladies Retreat will end. We have spent a lot of time eating, playing, shopping, eating, singing, eating, worshiping, praying and eating some more. I can say, Melanie Dorsey was God ordained to be here. She wrote and taught us a 5 session study on “The Personal Power of Choice…Choose Well & Live Well”. Comparison, Courage, Control, Contentment, and Connection. We are forever changed. Thank you to Melanie for being sensitive to the Holy Spirit and for your willingness to help us on our journey to becoming Daughters after HIS own heart. For all of you Pastor’s Wives or Women’s Ministries Leaders, I highly recommend you consider Melanie Dorsey as you choose your next teacher/speaker. You will be blessed.”

Excerpts from my Bible study, “The Personal Power of Choice…Choose Well & Live Well.”

On Choices -

“Being transformed is an ongoing process accomplished through the act of renewing the mind.

Our minds are transformed and renewed by the continual taking in of God’s Word into the deepest parts of who we are.

It’s not just about making better choices for a better outcome – although that’s part of it. Transformation goes beyond the temporary or quick fix.”

On Courage -

Though at times an act of courage may require the risk of life or reputation, more often it finds its opportunity in a risk to our comfort. It is reflected in our willingness to open our heart to others, to risk being vulnerable, open and honest.”

On Control -

Being a strong woman with a soft heart offers its challenges. I believe what is helpful in finding that balance is determining whether we are coming from a place of fear or love.”

 

Endorsement ~

“The Heritage community church has been blessed to have Melanie Clark Dorsey come to our retreat and teach 5 sessions of God’s word. One of the most incredible teachings we have ever heard. Melanie has made an impact on many ladies’ lives through her testimony and knowledge of the word. A woman of grace. A great friend to all of us. If you need a speaker for your ladies group I highly recommend Melanie. Thank you Melanie for sharing from your heart. Love you.” ~ Joan Bowman, Women’s Ministry Coordinator at Heritage Community Church, Severn, MD
“Your teachings on the personal power of choice touched on several critical areas of struggle that women face and offered a wealth of Scriptural truths to consider along with many practical insights into God-honoring ways to face these challenges. Although at different times in my life I have fallen into the snare of comparison, lacked courage, felt discontented as well as disconnected from others, I know that God is dealing with me about control. As a result of these lessons, I am encouraged to press in deeper in my relationship with God and trust Him to have my back – regardless of my situation or life storm.” ~ Althea W., Severn, MD
It truly was my pleasure and privilege to teach the Word of God in the company of such lovely women!
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The Personal Power of Choice

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Since I started writing this Bible study to teach at an upcoming women’s retreat I’ve faced resistance, time challenges and major life events. My daughter got married and moved to her new home in New Mexico. My mother passed from this earth and moved to her Heavenly home. My dad is leaving his home in Mississippi to come stay with us in our home. More change. More courage required.

For several days I was in a quandary over writing a particular section of the Bible study. Finally one day as I was running in the park I stopped at one of my favorite grassy spots to sit and pray a minute. I prayed for clarity and I got it. The funny thing is God is leading me to “take courage” (one of my session titles) and get out of  my “boat” (another reference I use in the study). So I’m going to step out on the water with Him and see what happens! It will be a stretch for me to teach this particular session in the way I sense He is leading. However I trust I’ve heard from Him and trust that He will reach out His hand to me should I begin to sink beneath the waves. Isn’t it just like God to require you to “eat the words” yourself before you serve them to others? Below is an excerpt from the introduction of “The Personal Power of  Choice…Choose Well & Live Well.”

Paul writes, “Therefore, if you have been raised with Christ, keep seeking the things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Keep thinking about things above, not things on the earth, for you have died and your life is hidden with Christ in God.” (Colossians 3:1-3 NET).

One commentator wrote about this verse, “We not only ‘seek heaven’ we ‘think heaven.’ For the believer we must keep our feet on the earth but our heads in heaven. We walk out the practical aspects of living in the here and now with our minds firmly fixed on eternity as the backdrop for it all.”

In “The Personal Power of Choice…Choose Well & Live Well” we’ll look at some practical aspects of living – five areas in which we have the freedom and the power to choose well. For each aspect I’ll ask you the following questions to help you gain clarity – to think heaven – and choose well.

How would your life be different if:

  • ·        You had more courage

 

  • ·        You stopped comparing yourself

 

  • ·        You let go of some control

 

  • ·        You felt more content

 

  • ·        You made deeper connections

As I have spoken to hundreds of women over the past several years, these five areas are often the ones that women confide in me they have a struggle. I polled 100 women and received feedback regarding these 5 areas.

Many women live in fear – fear of the unknown, fear of something bad happening to their children, and fear of rejection – especially rejection by other women.

Control has been a stronghold with women since Eve bit the apple and women are still trying to find a balance when it comes to issues of control.

How many of us are guilty of playing the comparison game? It is an unhealthy and even sinful path and I’m convinced God is not pleased when we compare and measure ourselves with one another. In my poll question regarding contentment, one woman responded she’d like to learn “How to be content when life is really hard and if content means to pretend that you’re not suffering when you really are.”

Finally, we’ll talk about healthy connections with other women so that godly relationships are formed and as iron sharpens iron, we might sharpen one another.

I believe that if we women of God “think heaven” as it relates to Courage, Control, Comparison, Contentment and Connection, we’ll see the kind of transformation and growth in our lives that attracts others to want what we’ve got. When that happens, we’ll be living testimonies of what God can do and will do in a life that chooses well and lives well.

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